Dynamic Marriages

by James Whiteaker

I consider myself a regular guy. Katy and I have raised two boys, work every day, and look forward to retirement. This year I have learned to save about 20 hours by not making the bed! �Not bad...� In the mornings I would take the time to make up the bed; not because I have a domestic side, but in my brilliance, I thought it would be a thing that Katy would like. While taking a marriage class Katy and I took time to talk to each other. To my amazement I learned that making the bed did not rate high on her wants, or as the class taught, �love bank�. I was not getting much �bang for the buck�. I learned that she wanted a kiss and a hug in the mornings as I was on my way out. Being task oriented, making the bed had seemed to be the thing to do. I would never have guessed that the kiss and the hug were so important. So guys, because of a little communication, I have saved time and I have gotten out of making the bed!

Life is made up of various communications between spouse, children, co-workers, and businesses. It is one of the most important tools we have available to us. In James 3:4 it compares the tongue to the rudder of a ship; with it we can praise or criticize; we can show our love or withhold our love.

In January you will have the opportunity to practice and improve your communication with your spouse, as there will be a class offered in Dynamic Marriages. The class will require effort, money, commitment, and about 3 hours a week for 8 weeks. If you are lucky, you can learn to save some time and learn what is important to your spouse. If you are interested in this class, please see Katy or me for additional information.

• Honoring Your Spouse -Nov 06, 2005
• Preparing for Marriage -Sep 11, 2005
• Marriage: God's Definition -Mar 22, 2005
• Why the Attack on Marriage? -Jul 18, 2004
• The Mystery of Love Revealed! -Feb 16, 2003